There are an increasing number of twins born in recent years. While the twinning is a real blessing, but also a big responsibility. However, there are cases where these mothers are out of control and this is usually caused by some inappropriate phrases using their relatives and acquaintances. See what the twin mothers never want to hear:
Do you have any other twins in the family?
It is possible in the family to have other twins or not. The pair may also be in vitro. Whatever the cause of twins, the mother can not get into the subject, so do not pick up the topic if she does not decide to divide it herself.
I do not know how you do it?
In fact, nobody knows except herself (even in some cases she asks the same). In any case, there is no choice, so your question is meaningless and quite heavy.
What's the bigger?
The question is actually quite confusing. One of the children went out one minute before the other. This does not make a baby bigger and the other smaller. They are still twins.
You look softer, softer, shy and so on …
Unlike the widely accepted perception of the people, the twins do not play roles and change their temper and develop every day. So at one point, smiling man, the next makes him no more angry than his brother or sister. Therefore, such results are inappropriate and offensive to the mother.
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Which one do you prefer?
Asking a mom what one of her two children prefers is among the most inappropriate questions. Of course, his children are special for every parent and he loves him unconditionally! In addition, a mother who has two months of childhood in her womb will never be able to love one more than the other!
How many are the same, how do you differentiate them?
Depending on the temper of your mother, your question may remain in the space without a response or a not very polite answer. Gemini is not necessarily identical in appearance. Of course, the resemblance can be impressive, but ultimately the two children remain with their features. Even if it happens to confuse them, if the mother is not so close to you, it's unlikely to tell you.
My sister (cousin, neighbor, colleague) also has twins.
Good, but why do you think this information is necessary for modern. Such types of statements are probably caused by the inability to tie the conversation in any other way, but keep in mind that it will not delight her, but rather will make her nervous.
I fully understand you. It's like two!
Mothers who gave birth to a child can never be compared to the twins. No matter how naughty and energetic your child is, it does not need the same care as when growing two at the same time.
The same applies to the mothers who gave birth to two children in a short space. Although this situation is really stressful, you can not compare it with the care of twins. So keep that in mind and save such statements from the twin daughters.