The body language carries a lot of information. If you learn to understand it correctly, you can learn a lot about people.
Usually, people are not aware of their postures, movements, facial expressions because this happens unconsciously. But it is precisely these moments that betray his true intentions and thoughts. Those who want to hide something have to monitor not only their language but also their body language.
Nature gave man a generous gift – the ability to decipher non-verbal signals from the body. But hardly anyone uses it. Why? Because there is no knowledge. This practice is not widespread and it is difficult, although desired, to find the necessary lessons.
Very interesting stories related to body language happen – they are often told by doctors who encounter them in their practice. For example, there is a case where a young man became seriously ill and was diagnosed with polio – this is cerebrospinal paralysis. Of course, the young man from such a severe disorder was permanently immobilized. What else to do in this state, regardless of how you observe and listen? He did this: He looked at his parents, brothers, sisters, aware of facial expressions, gestures. And a few months later, I came to the surprising conclusion that even without special knowledge, it becomes clear that the movements of people very often do not coincide with their words have a different meaning.
This guy has recovered. It wasn't easy for him, but he was able to take advantage of such a disaster. He became a specialist in non-verbal communication and even without words he could identify such serious things as betrayal, a person's profession, etc.
How does one decide if a person is telling the truth or not? Does he really think so? There are four key points to consider.
1. Eye contact
When a person listens to someone, do not look closely at the person in the eye. This is unconsciously associated with obedience and worship as servants obey their master when he gives them commands. And it is undesirable to blink frequentlyWhen you say something because it is a sign of anxiety and uncertainty in your own words, it greatly undermines credibility.
2. Don't look at the phone
Many people sin at this: look at the phone regularly during a call. What is it about? Time looked or urgent correspondence. But in reality, this shows a junk attitude to the speaker, emphasizing the insignificance of his words. This behavior during a conversation often causes a broken relationship.
3. Remove the phone
Psychological studies have shown that people with gadgets are much less likely to smile to both acquaintances and strangers. It seems like it's just a smartphone, but it can change the basics of social behavior!
4. Voice Block
There is a direct link between intonation and perception of spoken words. People change the tone of their voice in situations that bother them or cause anxiety. Such a vocal effect can evoke mood, posture, facial expressions and more.
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